The new ménage à trois is you, him/her, and technology! A third party has infiltrated your relationship and isn’t ever going to leave. According to Pew Research Center, “The internet, cell phones, and social media have become key actors in the life of many American couples.”
Let’s cut to the chase…is technology helping or hurting your relationship? Statistically speaking, technology is actually helping couples communicate and resolve conflicts more effectively. In fact, 74% of the adult internet users who report that the internet had an impact on their marriage or partnership say the impact was positive.
And the perks have just begun…
MEETING AND MATING
Truth be told, most people have met using a dating site. Common ground is established with little effort and communication determines whether or not to meet. Social media continues the courtship when statuses shift from “single” to “in a relationship”. Advantage: Technology
FORGET AND FORGIVE
Every man (and woman) has forgotten an anniversary or birthday at some point during their relationship. With technology on their side, the situation is remedied with just a few clicks. Flowers, gifts, and dinner reservations can be ordered, delivered, and shipped in a matter of minutes. What could have been a major blow up can become a minor issue with the help of technology.
A FIGHTING CHANCE
Before technology, couples had to hash out their differences face-to-face or over the phone. With technology, text messages and emails become viable communications vehicles. Whether in a meeting at work or commuting home, texting or emailing your mate can take the edge off of a charged situation. And let’s not forget technology’s hottest comm tool – sexting – a completely new way to express what you’re feeling via emoticons.
One cautionary thought: technology should be used as a relationship enhancement, not replacement. Keeping the personal touch – figuratively and literally – is always the best way to connect.
